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  • Robert Lai on Entreprenuership, Family, and Culture

    Robert Lai on Entreprenuership, Family, and Culture

    Intro

    Robert Lai is a Singaporean-based entrepreneur and marketing leader who founded Kaliber Performance Marketing Agency and leads the APAC Marketers community. In an industry often criticized for its lack of transparency and high burnout, Rob chose to build a business by leaning into values first and solving the “problems” that make people dislike agencies.+4

    In this episode, we talk about his journey moving across three continents—from Sydney to New York to Singapore—and the adjustments required to lead teams in diverse cultural environments. Rob shares the raw reality of starting a business during the onset of COVID-19 and the hard decisions he has made to protect his team, including his proud practice of “firing” clients who are not a good fit.+4

    From bombing a high-stakes presentation for HubSpot and LinkedIn to reframing networking as “hosting,” this is a conversation about perspective, the impact of fatherhood on decision-making, and the resilience inherited from his father’s survival through war.

    Story Highlights

    • Founding Kaliber in Singapore in 2020 without local contacts or anticipating the pandemic +2
    • Leading with values and solving the specific problems that make people “hate” the agency industry +1
    • Adjusting leadership styles between the directness of Australia and the “mind-reading” required in Asian business culture +2
    • The strategic decision to fire clients to build team momentum and protect culture
    • Overcoming a major public speaking failure by transferring negative energy into productive action +3
    • Reframing the “necessary evil” of networking into a passion for hosting and community building +3
    • How fatherhood created a “black and white” filter for prioritizing time and saying no to distractions +3
    • Inheriting a sense of perspective from his father’s experiences during wartime +3
    • Building the APAC Marketers community as a way to provide impact beyond commercial execution +2

    Quote

    “I’m like, nothing you are going through is as bad as that… I would rather have my problems than have his problems. That, to me, just sort of able to help me reframe a little bit. Take a step back… and get over yourself real quickly.” +1

    About Robert Lai

    Robert Lai is the founder of Kaliber, a performance marketing agency based in Singapore, and the leader of the APAC Marketers community. With a career that spans roles at Google and various agencies across Australia and the US, Rob has developed a leadership philosophy centered on alignment, passion, and objective-focused results. He is a lifelong learner who started his first business at 21 and now focuses on creating a model that attracts and retains the top 1% of talent and clients. Outside of his professional work, he is a husband, a young father, and an active participant in the Singaporean marketing ecosystem.+4

    Why This Conversation Matters

    Rob’s story illustrates how radical perspective can simplify complex business and personal choices. By using his father’s survival of war as a baseline for “hardship,” Rob demonstrates a unique ability to process failure and rejection without getting stuck in emotional loops. This episode provides a blueprint for anyone struggling with the “performative” aspects of professional life—like networking or public speaking—by showing how to pivot toward your natural aptitudes rather than settling for incremental improvements in areas that don’t fit.+4

    Turning Points

    Rob’s career was defined by constant movement and a refusal to “stand still,” changing six companies in six years to maximize learning. A major pivot occurred in 2020 when he chose to launch Kaliber in Singapore despite the global pandemic and a lack of local network. Another internal shift came after a failed speaking engagement for HubSpot, which led him to stop doing panel discussions and instead focus on speaking where he could “wear his heart on his sleeve”. The most recent shift has been fatherhood, which transformed his relationship with time from a commodity to be spent into a sacrifice to be carefully weighed.+4

    Key Lessons

    • Use personal history to reframe current struggles
    • Lead with values by deciding what you don’t want to be
    • Firing a client can be a more powerful team-builder than hiring one
    • Objective-focused thinking makes difficult tasks easier to execute
    • Don’t get better at networking; find a way to host instead +1
    • Alignment is more important than raw effort or pushing through a lack of talent +1
    • Fatherhood is a “hack” for business productivity and decision-making +1

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  • Marion Müller on Starting Over, Online Hate, and Choosing an Unscripted Path

    Marion Müller on Starting Over, Online Hate, and Choosing an Unscripted Path

    Intro

    Marion Müller didn’t set out to become a content creator. When her original plans fell through, she found herself in a position many people recognise but rarely talk about — no clear next step, no roadmap, and no certainty that what came next would work.

    In this episode, Marion shares how stumbling across a mentorship program became a turning point, pulling her into the world of content creation at a time when she felt she didn’t have many other options. We talk about what it’s like to build something publicly while still figuring things out privately, and the emotional whiplash of gaining visibility alongside criticism.

    She opens up about receiving direct messages telling her to kill herself, the mental toll of being your own boss with no off switch, and the quiet longing for structure, clarity, and rest. This is a conversation about being in-between — between careers, identities, and versions of yourself — and learning to keep going anyway.

    Story Highlights

    • Moving to Singapore and immediately feeling at home
    • Having original career plans fall through
    • Discovering a content creation mentorship program by chance
    • Choosing content creation when there didn’t feel like many other options
    • Navigating identity without a clear professional roadmap
    • Receiving hateful DMs telling her to kill herself
    • The emotional cost of being visible online
    • Wanting the simplicity of having a boss and fixed working hours
    • Learning what people don’t see behind online “success”
    • Continuing despite uncertainty and self-doubt

    Quote

    “Sometimes I honestly just wish I had a boss who tells me what to do, and then I go home by six and rest on the weekend.”

    About Marion Müller

    Marion Müller, also known as @swizzyinsg, is a content creator based in Singapore. After her initial plans didn’t work out, she pivoted into content creation through a mentorship program, building an online presence while navigating uncertainty, visibility, and criticism. Her story reflects the reality of modern work — where independence, exposure, and instability often coexist.

    Why This Conversation Matters

    A lot of career stories are told in hindsight, once things make sense. Marion’s story sits in the middle — where decisions are made without guarantees, and confidence comes after action, not before.

    This episode speaks to anyone who has had to pivot without feeling ready, who has questioned whether freedom is worth the mental load, or who has quietly wished for something simpler while pushing forward anyway.

    Turning Points

    When Marion’s original plans fell through, she found herself searching for direction without a clear alternative. Discovering a content creation mentorship program became an unexpected entry point into a new path. As her visibility grew, so did the pressure — including receiving deeply hurtful messages that forced her to confront the emotional risks of putting yourself online. At the same time, being fully self-directed made her realise how much she missed structure, boundaries, and rest. Rather than walking away, Marion chose to stay with the discomfort and continue building, even while questioning what sustainability really looks like.

    Key Lessons

    • Not all pivots are planned
    • Visibility comes with emotional risk
    • Freedom without structure can be exhausting
    • Online success hides invisible labor
    • Uncertainty doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong
    • You can keep going while still questioning the path
    • Being in-between is a real phase, not a failure

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  • Rohit Jha on Space, Startups, and Building the Future of Global Connectivity

    Rohit Jha on Space, Startups, and Building the Future of Global Connectivity

    Intro

    Rohit Jha is the co-founder and CEO of Transcelestial, a Singapore-based startup using laser technology to deliver ultra-fast internet from Earth to space. What began as an idea over two beers became one of Asia’s most ambitious deep-tech ventures, backed by global investors and already operating in markets across the US and Asia.

    In this episode, we talk about Rohit’s journey from a small industrial town in India to leading a company that’s literally beaming data through light. He shares the lessons he’s learned about ambition, failure, and building a company that could transform how the world connects — from neighborhoods without broadband to orbital networks circling the planet.

    Story Highlights

    • How growing up in a steel town shaped his fascination with technology and space
    • What inspired Transcelestial’s mission to build “a ring around the planet”
    • Turning science-fiction dreams into engineering reality
    • The challenges of fundraising and scaling deep-tech from Asia
    • Why storytelling is one of a founder’s most important skills

    Quote

    “The principles and the frameworks and the policies of the world that we live in are made by people like you and me. So that means people like you and me should be able to change it as well.”

    About Rohit Jha

    Rohit Jha is the co-founder and CEO of Transcelestial, a deep-tech startup developing laser-based wireless communication systems that aim to replace fiber optics with “wireless fiber.” The company has been recognized as one of Asia’s most promising space-tech ventures, building technology to expand global internet access and, eventually, enable interplanetary communication. Before Transcelestial, Rohit worked in high-frequency trading and holds a degree in Engineering from Nanyang Technological University (NTU) in Singapore.

    Why This Conversation Matters

    Rohit’s story blends vision and pragmatism. His journey from finance to space technology shows how ambition, curiosity, and persistence can drive innovation even in unlikely places. It’s a reminder that big ideas don’t start in Silicon Valley — they can start anywhere someone dares to ask “why not?”

    Turning Points

    After years in the finance world, Rohit realized that chasing money no longer fulfilled him. Inspired by SpaceX’s early successes, he quit his job and took a year off to travel and reflect. Searching for “where Paris is today” — the modern center of creativity and innovation — he found his answer in Singapore, where he launched Transcelestial in 2016. What began as an idea about “space lasers” is now a company installing high-speed laser links across Asia and testing systems for orbital communication.

    Key Lessons

    • Vision needs grounding. Big ideas must solve real problems today.
    • Storytelling is leadership. Founders have to inspire investors, employees, and the public.
    • Failure teaches direction. Mistakes are data for the next iteration.
    • Innovation isn’t location-bound. Great ideas can start anywhere with the right ecosystem.
    • Think in decades. Work backward from the future you want to create.

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  • Naomi Black on Dating Standards, Resilience, and Reinvention

    Naomi Black on Dating Standards, Resilience, and Reinvention

    Intro

    In August 2025, Naomi Black went viral after rejecting a first date at Lau Pa Sat, one of Singapore’s most famous hawker centres. Overnight she was labeled entitled and out of touch—but that headline missed the real story.

    Naomi has built a multifaceted career across modelling, hospitality, and real estate. She’s lived and worked across Europe, faced online backlash, endured bullying in corporate jobs and kitchens, and come out stronger for it. In this conversation, she opens up about what really happened behind the viral moment, what it’s like to rebuild confidence in public, and how her years abroad taught her to stay grounded in her own voice—no matter what others say.

    Story Highlights

    • The real story behind the “Lau Pa Sat first-date” saga and what people got wrong
    • How Naomi handled waves of online criticism and cyber-bullying
    • From paralegal student to model to chef to real-estate professional—her winding career path
    • Lessons from working in a Michelin-star kitchen in France and experiencing racism for the first time
    • Why she believes women should say no, set boundaries, and support one another

    Featured Quote

    “That whole experience made me the person I am today — full of grit and resilience.”

    About Naomi Black

    Naomi Black is a Singaporean model, entrepreneur, and real-estate professional. After studying law, she worked across Europe in modeling and hospitality before returning home to Singapore. She’s also trained as a chef in a Michelin-star restaurant in France and is known for her outspoken views on confidence and self-respect. Follow her at @naomiblackk or explore her projects and merch line through her Instagram bio.

    Why This Conversation Matters

    Naomi’s story isn’t just about dating standards — it’s about knowing your worth and staying steady when the internet turns against you. Beyond the viral noise, she reflects on career pivots, self-doubt, and resilience. Her openness shows that confidence isn’t arrogance; it’s the courage to live on your own terms, even when others don’t understand.

    Turning Points

    Throughout her journey, Naomi has continually reinvented herself. She’s pivoted from law to modelling, from working in Michelin-star kitchens to thriving in real estate. Each transition came with its own challenges—loneliness abroad, burnout, and self-doubt—but she learned to see them as lessons rather than failures. Whether rebuilding after a tough experience in France or facing public scrutiny online, Naomi’s turning points reveal her core belief: life’s hardest chapters often lead to the most authentic version of ourselves.

    Key Lessons

    • Know your standards. Setting boundaries doesn’t make you difficult — it makes you clear.
    • Do the inner work. Self-belief protects you when criticism comes.
    • Adapt and explore. Each career pivot — from law to culinary arts to sales — taught Naomi new dimensions of herself.
    • Learn through adversity. Harsh experiences in France shaped her resilience and empathy.
    • Support other women. Empowerment means lifting others up instead of tearing them down.

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  • Parul Sharma on Writing, Homesickness, and Creative Persistence

    Parul Sharma on Writing, Homesickness, and Creative Persistence

    Parul Sharma is an author whose novels explore memory, belonging, and the quiet struggles of everyday life. Her latest book, 17 Morris Road, tells the story of a woman at a crossroads who revisits her childhood home to reconsider the life she wants. In this conversation, we talk about her writing process, the years she spent balancing creativity with corporate life, and how she rediscovered her voice during the pandemic lockdowns.

    Parul shares the difference between nostalgia and homesickness, the agony of not writing, and the joy of finally finishing a story that had lived inside her for years. It’s an intimate, thoughtful look at what drives a writer to keep creating — even when life gets in the way.

    Story Highlights

    • The difference between nostalgia and homesickness, and how both shaped 17 Morris Road
    • Why writing is both a gift and a burden
    • The heartbreak of not writing during busy seasons of life
    • How motherhood, corporate work, and creativity can coexist
    • The long road to publishing and how it changed her view of success

    Quote

    “The toughest part about writing is not writing. It’s when you don’t write — and the misery that it gives you.”

    About Parul Sharma

    Parul Sharma is an Indian author and creative professional based in Singapore. She has published four novels, including 17 Morris Road, By the Water Cooler, and The Wake-Up Call. Her writing often explores themes of memory, belonging, and womanhood in modern India. Alongside her fiction, she has led a corporate research career and mentors aspiring writers. Follow her on Instagram @parulsharma or find her books on Amazon and Kindle worldwide.

    Why This Conversation Matters

    Parul’s story reminds us that creative work doesn’t disappear when we get busy — it waits. Her return to writing during lockdown is a reflection of how passion can lie dormant and still survive. This conversation isn’t just about publishing; it’s about returning to what gives life meaning after years of distraction.

    Turning Points

    From her first novel written in stolen hours after work to a long hiatus spent building a business and raising children, Parul’s path shows the patience behind creative endurance. The lockdown gave her the stillness to rediscover what she loved most — the act of writing itself. Each book marks a different season of her life, and her next, The Missing Piece, has been fifteen years in the making. Her story is proof that creativity never truly leaves us; sometimes it just waits for the right time to reemerge.

    Key Lessons

    • Honor your calling. The misery of not creating is its own reminder to start again.
    • Be patient with your craft. Some stories need years to mature.
    • Balance is imperfect. Creativity and career often coexist in tension, not harmony.
    • Feedback is part of the process. Courage is sharing your work before you feel ready.
    • Keep showing up. Writing — like growth — is about consistency, not perfection.

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  • Bow T on Content Creation, Confidence, and Life Abroad

    Bow T on Content Creation, Confidence, and Life Abroad

    Intro

    Bow Kajeeporn Techataveekijkul – better known online as @bowiehoneybaby — is a Thai content creator, storyteller, and full-time marketing professional based in Singapore. What started as a personal diary for her friends and family has grown into an audience of tens of thousands who follow her travel tips, food finds, and honest reflections on life abroad.

    In this conversation, we talk about how Bow built her platform while working full-time, what she’s learned about online safety, and why she believes authenticity always wins. We also get into what it means to live away from home, finding balance between ambition and peace, and learning to keep creating even when not every post performs.

    Story Highlights

    • How Bow turned a personal blog into a cross-platform community
    • Why she started Boring Singapore to show Thai audiences the fun side of the city
    • Her reflections on living in Thailand, Japan, and Singapore
    • The balance between honesty and controversy in social media
    • Navigating PR rejection, job changes, and uncertainty while staying adaptable

    Quote

    “Even the biggest creators have flopped videos. Negative people are just louder — they don’t represent everyone.”

    About Bow T

    Bow is a Thai content creator and marketing professional currently based in Singapore. She is the voice behind Boring Singapore on Facebook and Instagram, a community for Thais curious about life in Singapore. Across her personal channels — @bowiehoneybaby on Instagram and Threads — she shares humor, travel, lifestyle, and reflections on modern dating. Her work bridges cultures while keeping authenticity at its core.

    Why This Conversation Matters

    Bow’s story is a reminder that social media can be more than a highlight reel — it can be a space to connect, learn, and grow. Her reflections on feedback, online safety, and creative consistency highlight what it means to stay grounded when your personal life becomes public. It’s a candid look at how to keep showing up without losing yourself.

    Turning Points

    From her first blog in Japan to creating content that now reaches audiences in Thailand and Singapore, Bow’s journey has been a steady evolution of voice and purpose. She’s navigated layoffs, visa challenges, and PR rejection while continuing to create out of joy rather than pressure. Her turning points reveal a pattern of resilience — finding confidence through vulnerability and embracing the unpredictability of life abroad.

    Key Lessons

    • Stay authentic. Share what’s real, not just what performs.
    • Keep perspective. Online criticism rarely reflects the whole audience.
    • Adapt and learn. Every flop teaches you something about storytelling.
    • Separate work and self. Boundaries keep creativity sustainable.
    • Embrace uncertainty. Flexibility is what keeps you moving forward.

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  • Anthony Yeoh on French Comfort Food, Innovation, and the Future of Dining in Singapore

    Anthony Yeoh on French Comfort Food, Innovation, and the Future of Dining in Singapore

    Intro

    Anthony Yeoh is the chef-owner of Summer Hill, a beloved French comfort-food restaurant in Singapore. Known for its signature roast chicken and hearty family-style dishes, Summer Hill has evolved over the past eight years from a humble takeaway stall into a full-service restaurant. In this conversation, Anthony shares how that transformation happened organically—by listening to customers, experimenting with ideas like the brunch trolley, and staying grounded in hospitality.

    We talk about the challenges facing Singapore’s independent dining scene, the role of home-based food businesses, and what it takes to run a restaurant that feels personal and sustainable in a changing economy. Anthony’s story is equal parts creativity and pragmatism: a reminder that food, at its best, is about care, community, and constant adaptation.

    Story Highlights

    • The origins of Summer Hill and its evolution from takeaway stall to restaurant
    • Why the brunch trolley combines dim sum culture with French comfort food
    • What cuisine bourgeoise means and why Anthony calls his spirit animal a French grandmother
    • The importance of adapting recipes and menus for Singaporean diners
    • Why he believes home-based businesses are Singapore’s new hawkers

    Quote

    “My spirit animal is a French grandmother living inside me. And I’ve always been very drawn to that idea of the family gathering around the kitchen table—a big pot of stew.”

    About Anthony Yeoh

    Anthony Yeoh is a Singaporean chef and restaurateur best known as the founder of Summer Hill, located at Claymore Connect on Orchard Road. After studying at At-Sunrice GlobalChef Academy, he built a career championing accessible French comfort food that celebrates warmth and community. Anthony’s perspectives on adaptation, innovation, and sustainability have made him one of Singapore’s leading voices on the future of dining. Follow @summerhillsg on Instagram or visit summerhill.sg.

    Why This Conversation Matters

    Anthony’s journey reflects the realities of running a small business through volatility and change. From manpower shortages to shifting diner habits, he speaks candidly about balancing creativity with business discipline. His philosophy—that hospitality is about generosity, not perfection—shows how restaurants can thrive by staying human in an industry built on constant pressure.

    Turning Points

    Summer Hill began as a one-dish takeaway stall and grew, plate by plate, into a neighborhood restaurant. Each stage required Anthony to evolve—from cook to owner, from creative to strategist. He learned to pair instinct with data, blending menu design with financial analysis, and to see adaptation as part of the craft. When pandemic disruptions hit, he introduced the brunch trolley concept—French comfort food served dim-sum style—which became a defining innovation. For Anthony, every reinvention starts with listening to customers and trusting that flexibility is a form of creativity.

    Key Lessons

    • Listen first. Every menu and pivot should start with understanding the customer.
    • Balance art and numbers. Creativity thrives when grounded in solid business fundamentals.
    • Evolve traditions. Preserving cuisine means remembering its heart, not replicating old rules.
    • Generosity builds loyalty. True hospitality is about care, not control.
    • Adapt relentlessly. Whether it’s a dish, a business model, or an industry, change is constant.

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  • Nuray Istiqbal on Faith, Reinvention, and Life After Rae Lil Black

    Nuray Istiqbal on Faith, Reinvention, and Life After Rae Lil Black

    Intro

    Nuray Istiqbal, formerly known to millions online as Rae Lil Black, has undergone one of the most public and personal transformations imaginable. Once an adult-film performer and streamer with a global following, Nuray has since converted to Islam, changed her name, and left the industry behind.

    In this conversation, she speaks candidly about what led her to faith, how her time in Japan and Thailand shaped her worldview, and why she doesn’t regret her past. We also talk about how she discovered Islam by chance, what Ramadan taught her about patience, and how she’s learning to live a quieter, more purposeful life after fame.

    Story Highlights

    • The journey from Rae Lil Black to Nuray Istiqbal — and what that change means to her
    • How a trip through Southeast Asia opened her heart to Islam
    • Why she says she’s “never made a decision I didn’t believe in”
    • The difference between loneliness and belonging in her new community
    • How Muay Thai training keeps her grounded and present

    Quote

    “People ask me if I regret it, but I don’t regret anything because I never make a decision that I don’t want to do.”

    About Nuray Istiqbal

    Nuray Istiqbal is a Japanese-born creator and former adult-film performer who was widely known under her previous name, Rae Lil Black. After years of working in Europe’s entertainment industry, she began studying Islam while living in Thailand and converted in 2024. Today she shares her journey toward faith and renewal with followers across Asia, appearing in podcasts, TEDx talks, and Islamic community events. Nuray is also an advocate for self-reflection, patience, and personal growth through faith.

    Why This Conversation Matters

    Nuray’s story challenges the idea that our past defines our future. Her willingness to speak openly about life before and after Rae Lil Black reveals a message of self-acceptance and grace. Whether you’re religious or not, her journey is a reminder that change doesn’t erase who we were — it helps us understand why we became who we are.

    Turning Points

    After years in Europe’s adult industry, Nuray reached a point of fatigue and moved to Thailand, where a chance encounter with Muslim friends led her to study Islam. Six months later, she converted, beginning a new chapter grounded in prayer, humility, and learning. What stands out most is her balance of realism and faith — she neither denies nor glamorizes her past. For Nuray, both Rae Lil Black and Nuray Istiqbal are parts of the same story: a woman learning, evolving, and seeking peace on her own terms.

    Key Lessons

    • Own your choices. Growth doesn’t require regret — it requires understanding.
    • Faith brings perspective. Spiritual practice can transform how we handle judgment.
    • Adaptation is lifelong. True reinvention happens from within.
    • Community matters. Belonging to something bigger gives strength through change.
    • Let go with grace. The past shapes us, but it doesn’t have to define us.

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  • Sanjay Jegatheeson on Legacy, Family, and Building Singapore’s First Meadery

    Sanjay Jegatheeson on Legacy, Family, and Building Singapore’s First Meadery

    Intro

    Sanjay Jegatheeson is the co-founder of Lion City Meadery, Singapore’s first mead brewery. What began as a home-brewing hobby turned into an award-winning business that’s redefining how Singaporeans think about craft alcohol. Balancing his full-time career in event production, fatherhood, and entrepreneurship, Sanjay’s story is one of curiosity, discipline, and persistence.

    In this conversation, we talk about how a trip to London sparked his obsession with mead, what it took to launch a business around a product most people didn’t even recognize, and how he’s building a legacy his daughter can one day inherit. We also explore his views on work-life balance, fatherhood, and what it means to pursue passion without losing perspective.

    Story Highlights

    • How discovering mead in London led to founding Lion City Meadery
    • The challenges of introducing an unknown product to Singapore’s market
    • Balancing full-time work, family, and entrepreneurship
    • How sport and structure helped him overcome burnout
    • His philosophy of legacy over money — building something to pass on

    Quote

    “I think I’m very lucky that I have a business partner who doesn’t hold me back as well. If anything, he encourages some of these stupid, crazy ideas that I have. And I’m encouraged to go and try it out, you know, brew a test batch. And if it fails, it fails, right?”

    About Sanjay Jegatheeson

    Sanjay Jegatheeson is a Singaporean entrepreneur and the co-founder of Lion City Meadery, Singapore’s first mead brewery. Founded in 2018, the company has since won multiple regional and international awards, including Best of Singapore at BeerFest Asia. Outside the brewery, Sanjay works in event production and is an avid martial artist, golfer, and father. His ability to juggle creative pursuits and family life reflects his belief that success is about legacy, not just profit.

    Why This Conversation Matters

    Sanjay’s journey shows that passion doesn’t have to replace stability — it can complement it. His story is about building something meaningful while staying grounded in everyday life. Whether it’s brewing, family, or fitness, Sanjay’s approach proves that discipline and curiosity can coexist, and that success can be defined by legacy as much as achievement.

    Turning Points

    From discovering mead in a London pub to experimenting in his kitchen, Sanjay’s journey has been shaped by learning through trial and error. When he and his business partner Justin launched Lion City Meadery in 2019, they faced an uphill battle educating consumers who thought “mead” meant “meat.” With persistence and creativity, they grew from a local startup to an award-winning brand. Beyond business, becoming a father reframed his priorities — from chasing income to building something lasting. For Sanjay, the goal now is legacy: creating a company his daughter can one day build upon.

    Key Lessons

    • Experiment boldly. Curiosity and failure are part of innovation.
    • Balance ambition with reality. Passion projects thrive when grounded in discipline.
    • Legacy matters more than money. Build something that outlives you.
    • Structure creates freedom. Boundaries enable growth at work and at home.
    • Partnership fuels progress. Shared vision multiplies results.

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  • Laurence Chinery on Fatherhood, Identity, and Redefining What It Means to Provide

    Laurence Chinery on Fatherhood, Identity, and Redefining What It Means to Provide

    Intro

    Laurence Chinery is a father, educator, and podcaster based in the Netherlands. After years of teaching in Hong Kong, he and his wife made the bold decision to move their young family to Europe so he could become a full-time stay-at-home dad. Laurence now hosts Dad Dialogue, a podcast about modern fatherhood, where he speaks with other dads navigating parenting, purpose, and partnership.

    In this conversation, we talk about what it’s like to be a stay-at-home father in a new country, how the decision reshaped his identity and marriage, and what he’s learned about patience, partnership, and redefining success.

    Story Highlights

    • Moving from Hong Kong to the Netherlands to raise their two children
    • Navigating isolation and rebuilding community as a stay-at-home parent
    • How Dad Dialogue became a creative outlet and source of connection
    • Why clear communication saved his marriage during transition
    • Balancing domestic life, self-worth, and long-term goals

    Quote

    “I became a stay-at-home dad, and yeah, I love it. It’s amazing to be able to take this time and really invest into them, and see the development and the growth. However, it was very isolating, especially moving to a whole new country, of having to try and make new friends. We had no family. Like, we had one friend.”

    About Laurence Chinery

    Laurence Chinery is a British educator, podcaster, and stay-at-home dad currently living in the Netherlands. After teaching in Hong Kong and Sweden, he shifted focus to parenting full-time when his family relocated to Europe. He is the host of Dad Dialogue, a podcast featuring honest conversations about modern fatherhood. Laurence’s experiences span education, cross-cultural living, and parenting, making his story both relatable and refreshingly candid.

    Why This Conversation Matters

    Laurence’s journey sheds light on a rarely discussed topic — stay-at-home fatherhood. His honesty about isolation, identity, and self-worth offers a glimpse into how men can redefine what success and contribution mean. The conversation goes beyond parenting; it’s about partnership, purpose, and learning to find fulfillment in unexpected places.

    Turning Points

    Laurence’s transition from teacher to full-time dad came with both freedom and friction. The move from Hong Kong to the Netherlands meant new routines, no support network, and a complete reset of identity. Starting Dad Dialogue gave him space to reflect and connect — not just with other fathers, but with himself. He and his wife have built a rhythm based on clear communication, shared responsibilities, and mutual respect — proof that balance looks different for every family.

    Key Lessons

    • Redefine success. Fulfillment can come from presence, not paychecks.
    • Communicate clearly. Alignment with your partner prevents resentment.
    • Structure brings sanity. Routines give shape to long, unpredictable days.
    • Isolation is real. Connection and creative outlets are essential.
    • Parenting is partnership. There’s no single right way to raise a family.

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