Tag: Comedy

  • Lav Chloe on Going Viral by Accident and the ADHD Behind the Voices

    Lav Chloe on Going Viral by Accident and the ADHD Behind the Voices

    Intro

    Lav Chloe did impressions for years before anyone was watching. In private, for her friends. Late last year she recorded one, a single take she planned to delete, and posted it so a few people close to her could see it. She woke up to a million views, then millions more, and the private thing she did to make her friends laugh became her whole career.

    In this episode we get into what she found out about herself along the way. That the same wiring behind the accents, the ease of slipping into someone else’s voice, is the ADHD she was diagnosed with at 30, years after leaving medical school. How the relief of finally understanding herself arrived alongside anger at how long it took. The line she walks doing accents without mocking anyone, and why she ends up defending people in her own comments. And where she thinks the humor comes from in the first place. She is not chasing the next viral hit. She is figuring out what to do with the one she did not plan for.

    Story Highlights

    • Doing impressions privately for her friends for years, then recording one take she meant to delete, posting it, and waking up to a million views.
    • Her first viral video being completely unpolished, and that being the whole point.
    • Coming to see intention and perception as two different things, and making sure her intention is clear in everything she puts out.
    • The care underneath the comedy: underdoing an accent rather than exaggerating it, so it reads as homage and not mockery, especially for accents that already face scrutiny.
    • The haters who accused her of insulting cultures, and the advice she took to heart, that silence is the best response to trolls.
    • Why she still steps into her own comments, not to defend herself, but to defend the people her impressions are about when others use them as cover to mock.
    • The irony she noticed, that the harshest commenters tend to come from multiracial countries, while people from more homogenous places have been more respectful.
    • Suspecting she had ADHD at 27, getting formally diagnosed and medicated at 30, and being in medical school before she ever had a name for it.
    • How the ease of mimicry and code-switching that makes her good at accents is the same ADHD wiring, to the point that a week around someone is enough to pick up how they sound.
    • The grief inside the diagnosis, relief that her life finally made sense, and anger that she could have had the tools years earlier.
    • Turning her hobbies into work and burning out on them, from a dance crew to a food page, and learning to keep some things back just for herself.
    • Why she resists being called an influencer and prefers creator, and her view that cringe is the price you pay for freedom.
    • Where she thinks Malaysian humor comes from, generations of hardship turned into a way of laughing at pain.

    Quote

    “I think it explains a lot of who I am, and thank God for that. Otherwise, I would always think to myself, what’s wrong with me?”

    About Lav Chloe

    Lav Chloe is a Malaysian content creator based in Kuala Lumpur, known for her accents and impressions. She went viral in late 2025 from a video she first made for her friends, and has built a following for her comedy since. She studied medicine before content creation, and is open about living with ADHD, which she was diagnosed with at 30. Find her at @sorude_ on Instagram and TikTok.

    Why This Conversation Matters

    Most people meet Lav through the clips. The accents, the impressions, the videos that ran into the millions. This conversation is the person behind them. She talks about the wiring that makes her good at what she does being the same thing she spent most of her life thinking was wrong with her, about the care she puts into not mocking the people she imitates, and about finding out at 30 what had been going on the whole time. It is not a viral-success story. It is someone discovering that the thing that made her feel broken is the thing she is best at, and working out what to do with it.

    Turning Points

    • Recording an impression she meant to delete, posting it for her friends, and waking up to a million views that turned into a career.
    • Getting formally diagnosed with ADHD at 30, and the anger that came before the relief.
    • Realizing the mimicry behind her accents is the same wiring behind the diagnosis, and that the talent and the thing she thought was wrong with her are one and the same.
    • Deciding to stop performing a version of herself she thought people wanted, and posting through the cringe instead.

    Key Lessons

    • The thing you think is wrong with you can be the thing you are best at. The ADHD she spent years wishing away is the same wiring that lets her slip into any voice.
    • Respect is the line between an impression and mockery. She underdoes the accent and treats it as homage, which is why the work reads as funny instead of cruel.
    • Silence is usually the right answer to trolls, until it isn’t. She lets the hate roll off, except when commenters use her impressions as cover to mock the people behind them, and then she speaks up.
    • A late diagnosis brings relief and grief together. Finally understanding herself made sense of her whole life, and also made her angry about the years she spent without the help.
    • The funniest people are often working through something heavy. Her read on Malaysian humor is that it comes from generations of hardship, turned into a way of laughing at pain.

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  • Juliana Heng on Stand-Up Comedy, Neurodivergence, Queerness, and the Cost of Being Yourself

    Juliana Heng on Stand-Up Comedy, Neurodivergence, Queerness, and the Cost of Being Yourself

    Intro

    Juliana Heng left a stable career in accounting to become a stand-up comedian, and somewhere along the way, the stage became the place they figured out who they actually were.

    In this episode, we explore what happens when a career pivot uncovers parts of yourself you have spent years keeping quiet. Juliana walks us through the terrifying experience of leaving the safe path, bombing on stage during the early days of their comedy career in Malaysia, and dealing with critics who told them they didn’t belong. We get into the difficult choices they made to ignore the “easy road” of family expectations, how they incorporated their autism and neurodivergent experiences into their act, and the journey of navigating queerness and gender identity in the public eye. This is a conversation about the courage it takes to venture into the unknown and the price you pay for living authentically.

    Story Highlights

    • Leaving behind a stable and traditional career in accounting to face the uncertainty of stand-up comedy in Malaysia.
    • Using the stage to surface hidden parts of their identity, openly sharing their autism diagnosis and neurodivergent experiences with audiences.
    • Exploring queerness and the journey to self-acceptance while navigating a culture that often expects conformity.
    • Enduring the brutal early days of comedy, including bombing frequently and facing harsh criticism from peers who said they didn’t deserve to be on stage.
    • The emotional cost of being true to yourself when the people closest to you—like family—want a different, safer version of your life.
    • Redefining success away from monetary value to focus entirely on health, happiness, and finding spaces where they are fully embraced.

    Quote

    “There are two choice I have. One, to take the easy road is to actually just listen to what your mom say. The second route is to actually venture out, figuring out who you are, and then there’s a lot of unknown, and it’s actually much scarier.”

    About Juliana Heng

    Juliana Heng is a stand-up comedian and former accountant from Malaysia who uses the stage to explore identity, authenticity, queerness, and life on the autism spectrum. By stepping away from the corporate world, Juliana embraced the challenging path of live performance to figure out who they truly are. They are a passionate advocate for neurodivergence, LGBTQ+ visibility, and living a life centered on mental and physical health and unapologetic self-acceptance. You can find their quirky and authentic content on Instagram under the handle @mxjulianaheng.

    Why This Conversation Matters

    Juliana’s story goes far beyond a standard career pivot; it is a raw look at self-discovery through art. Choosing a path filled with unknowns and enduring harsh early criticism requires immense courage, especially when navigating the intersections of autism and queerness in a traditional society. For anyone who feels trapped by conventional expectations, or is afraid to share their true self with the world, Juliana’s journey is a powerful reminder that authenticity, though difficult and scary, is ultimately worth the cost.

    Turning Points

    • Making the decision to leave the safe, prescribed route of accounting to try stand-up comedy.
    • Pushing through the terrible early shows and negative feedback from fellow comedians instead of giving up.
    • Realizing that true fulfillment required abandoning traditional societal checklists in favor of prioritizing personal wellness, neurodivergent needs, and queer acceptance.

    Key Lessons

    • Taking the easy road often means ignoring who you really are; venturing into the unknown is scarier but necessary for self-discovery.
    • Owning your neurodivergent and queer identity on a public platform can be terrifying, but it also creates the space you need to truly thrive.
    • Failure and criticism are inevitable when you start something new, but they do not define your worth or your right to take up space.
    • Success shouldn’t be defined by external metrics or financial value, but by whether your life makes you happy, healthy, and allows you to be embraced for who you are.

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  • Put Down Your Fork and Laugh with Jacky Ng; Singapore Comedy, Resilience & Authenticity

    Put Down Your Fork and Laugh with Jacky Ng; Singapore Comedy, Resilience & Authenticity

    Intro

    Jacky Ng has spent more than a decade sharpening his wit in Singapore’s rapidly evolving stand-up comedy scene. From his early days performing open mics at Blue Jazz to taking the stage at the Melbourne Comedy Festival, he’s built a career defined by consistency, courage, and connection. Along the way he’s faced silent rooms, restless crowds, and the quiet self-doubt that comes with turning laughter into a livelihood.

    In this conversation, Jacky reflects on what bombing taught him about humility, how the local scene has matured, and why Singaporean humor deserves a louder voice on the global stage. We also talk about what happens behind the curtain: the craft, the grind, and the unfiltered reality of making strangers laugh night after night.

    If you’ve ever wondered what it takes to keep showing up for your passion even when the crowd doesn’t respond, this episode is for you.

    Story Highlights

    • The lessons Jacky took from his worst bomb at the Perth Fringe Festival
    • How the local comedy scene has evolved—from one open mic a week to multiple shows nightly
    • Why Singaporeans “love coffee-shop humor,” and how that shapes his voice
    • The hidden grind behind performing for corporate crowds who just want to eat
    • Why he values real laughter over viral fame

    Featured Quotes

    “There’s always nervousness — if you stop feeling nervous, it means you don’t care anymore.”

    “I’d like to get to a point where people want to see me for twenty minutes—and they put down everything they’re doing and just watch.”

    About Jacky Ng

    Jacky Ng is a Singapore-based stand-up comedian who has performed at festivals and clubs throughout Southeast Asia, including the Melbourne Comedy Festival. Known for blending everyday Singaporean humor with sharp storytelling, Jacky also hosts regular shows under Jacky & Friends, where he spotlights rising local comics. Find his upcoming dates at jacky.sg or follow @jackyngcomedy.

    Why This Conversation Matters
    Jacky’s story captures what so many of us face – the balance between self-doubt and showing up anyway. His perspective on failure and belonging echoes what Before We Get There is all about: growth through doing. It’s not a polished highlight reel; it’s the messy middle where we find the real lessons.

    Key Lessons

    • Repetition builds resilience. Every comic bombs, it’s what you do after that defines you.
    • Authenticity connects. Embracing his Singaporean accent and humor made Jacky’s performances stronger, not smaller.
    • Success takes patience. From open mics to international festivals, the path isn’t linear, but every stage matters.
    • Craft over clicks. Social media can amplify your work, but it can’t replace the magic of a live audience.
    • Representation matters. Sharing Singaporean stories on global stages helps audiences see a different side of the country.

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